Happy Holidays…or are They?

This year more than ever, I am seeing and hearing folks talk more openly about not feeling all that happy this time of year. Are people more comfortable with being honest about their feelings? Perhaps, people are feeling less obligated to put on a happy face and pretend in an effort to make others more comfortable? I see this as a welcome shift in mindset and a chance for some much needed empathy.

I know the majority of the world is in the grips of COVID fatigue, at the very least…you may be tired of all the social distancing rules and the debate of vaccinations. At worst, you may be reeling from the loss of loved ones.

There is no doubt that COVID and all of the issues and tragedies that surround the pandemic play a role in our feelings around this holiday season.

Personally, this year has been tough in a lot of ways. I lost two of my grandparents (not to COVID) and a member of our family has been dealing with major medical issues; we are still unsure of how things will pan out for them. Teaching has been more stressful than I could have ever imagined. I am sure you have all read and heard the struggles we are facing in the world of education. On the flip side of all that, I got engaged to my partner of 8 years and our beautiful granddaughter Isabella was born….what a joy she has brought to our family.

Despite the losses and stress in my life, I know I have much to be thankful for and I am choosing to focus on those things.

Having said that, I understand and respect those who cannot or are unable to focus on anything good.

I have a tremendous amount of empathy for all of you who may be struggling this holiday season. I see you and I hope you all know you are not alone. My wish for you this holiday season is some peace and empathy from those around you.